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batch '99: THE GOLDEN HARVEST
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Re: Enhancing Relationships
taga_lidoy wrote:[b]TRUST is a very important factor for all
relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of
the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion,
suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity
and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she
received a phone call. She answered, "Public
Utilities Board." There was silence. She
repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When
she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a
lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB.Sorry, I got the
number from my Husband's pocket but I do not
know whose
number it is."
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will
happen to the couple if the telephone operator
answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
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NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people
praised you for a successful marriage. Could you
please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never
criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when
she does something wrong. Always bear in mind
that because of her shortcomings and
weaknesses, she could not find a better husband
than
you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected.
Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally,
when a person makes a mistake, he would look
around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at.
This is the start of a war. We should always
remember that when we point one finger at a
person, the other four fingers are pointing at
ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our
mistake too.
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CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for
marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a
spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one."
The SDU officer said, "Your requirements,
please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous ,
sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and
dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day
at home during my
leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting
stories when I need companion for conversation
and be silent when I want to rest." The officer
listened carefully and replied, "I understand you
need television."
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be
found between a blind wife and a deaf
husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the
faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot
hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are
blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of
perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when
the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and
discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The
nightmare begins.
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NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to
overpower another,or demands too much. People
in love tend to think that love will conquer all and
their spouses will change the bad habits after
marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a
Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It
is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a
person's character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high
expectation on changing the spouse character will
cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and
lower our expectations..
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RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the
meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin
a nation." Many relationships break off because of
wrong speech. When a couple is too close with
each other,we always forget mutual respect and
courtesy. We may say anything without
considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their
construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw
her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We
used to date in the secondary school." On the way
home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily
you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a
construction worker." She answered ,"You should
appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will
be the millionaire and not you."
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the
seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg -
cannot be reversed.
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PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One
man's meat could be another man's poison. A
couple bought a donkey from the market. On the
way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why
neither of them ride on the donkey?"Upon hearing
that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey.
He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it
and commented, "The husband is the head of
family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while
the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife
quickly got down and let the husband ride on the
donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady.
She commented, "How can the man ride on the
donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join
him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man.
He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold
up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to
you." Hearing that, the husband and wife
immediately climbed down from the donkey and
carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a
narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and
struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the
river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor
will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not
at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our
conscience is clear..
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BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States.
A man came out of his home to admire his new
truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son
was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint
of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him
away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as
punishment. When the father calmed down, he
rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the
crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the
fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy
woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged
stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy, I'm sorry about
your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my
fingers going to grow back?" The father went home
& committed
suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone
steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think
first before u lose your patience with someone u
love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt
feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize
the difference between the person and the
performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater
than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make
mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage
will haunt us forever.
"Good Life starts only when you stop wanting a
better One"[/b]
ayay mad sa lamang ini kita matarog...
grasha wrote:ay ay.... grabe kay gayud anhin pag ariba ni lidoy!!!... musta nakw dong?
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dont wori grash, im back with a vengeance. dili na taraw ako an no. 1, abay mo lang..........
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response to guest
That was a good posting guest ,we can get a lot of moral lessons from it. Hope you can post more of that... 
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taga_lindoy
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somebody you love vs somebody you like
Know the difference between "somebody you Love"
and "somebody you like"In front of the person you
like, your heart beats faster. But in front of the
person you love, you get happy. In front of the
person you love, winter seems like spring. But in
front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful
winter. If you look into the eyes of the one you like,
you blush. But if you look into the eyes of the one
you love, you smile. In front of the person you like,
you can't say everything on your mind.But in front
of the person you love, you can. In front of the
person you like, you tend to get shy. But in front of
the person you love, you can show your own
self.You can't look straight into the eyes of the one
you like. But you can always smile into the eyes
of
the one you love.But when the one you like is
crying, you end up comforting.When the one you
love is crying, you cry with them.The feeling of like
starts from the ear.But the feeling of love starts
from the eye. So if you stop liking a person you
used to like, all you need to do is cover your
ears.But if you try to close your eyes, love turns
into a drop of tear and remains in your heart
forever ............................ [/b]
and "somebody you like"In front of the person you
like, your heart beats faster. But in front of the
person you love, you get happy. In front of the
person you love, winter seems like spring. But in
front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful
winter. If you look into the eyes of the one you like,
you blush. But if you look into the eyes of the one
you love, you smile. In front of the person you like,
you can't say everything on your mind.But in front
of the person you love, you can. In front of the
person you like, you tend to get shy. But in front of
the person you love, you can show your own
self.You can't look straight into the eyes of the one
you like. But you can always smile into the eyes
of
the one you love.But when the one you like is
crying, you end up comforting.When the one you
love is crying, you cry with them.The feeling of like
starts from the ear.But the feeling of love starts
from the eye. So if you stop liking a person you
used to like, all you need to do is cover your
ears.But if you try to close your eyes, love turns
into a drop of tear and remains in your heart
forever ............................ [/b]
impossible is nothing
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taga_lindoy
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